Instead of Resolutions, I Do This

In this episode, I’m sharing a simple end-of-year practice I’ve returned to every year since 2017—one that has nothing to do with resolutions, goals, or fixing yourself.

It started in a yoga class on New Year’s Eve, during a time when my life was quietly falling apart. I was deeply depressed, circling the truth that I needed to leave my marriage, and trying to survive day to day. The exercise was simple: two cards. One for the year you’re leaving. One for the year you’re stepping into. Not achievements. Not intentions. Just words.

I’m walking you through how this practice helped me tell the truth about what a year actually felt like—longing, fear, disconnection, grief—and how naming that reality grounded me instead of shaming me. When you’ve lived in abuse or survival mode, your inner compass gets scrambled. Your nervous system isn’t thinking about the future. It’s trying to stay safe. So when people ask about goals or resolutions, everything can freeze.

This practice doesn’t ask you to know the future. It asks you to tell the truth about the present. 

Here is the Substack link: https://open.substack.com/pub/jessicaknightcoaching/p/instead-of-resolutions-i-do-this?r=1ecj9w&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true